Why did they say that…

Do people really think about what they sat before it comes from their lips?

Life and death is in the power of the tongue. And those who live it will eat the fruit of it. Proverbs 18:21

Our words can also bless or curse! So the power of what we say denotes a powerful force behind it that has a belief system.

Today, as it so happens I came into my place of employment. I was dressed business causal has my lil wedge heels on feeling good about myself and all with my hair and makeup done as it is an office.

When someone in another department see’s me come in and says well look at you with your hooker heels on. Needless to say this same person has called me narcissitic and now that took the cake I have to be honest.

I have asked my Pastor Juanita Gibbs about this prior as to seek councel about am I a narcissit and all that is said of me. She told me she doesnt believe I am a full narsisst, but I may have some tendancies of one when I feel confident about myself. I am certainly not to the place of its all about me and all that stuff that comes with narcissism.

I have to say to feel any amount of confidence now has been a trememdous work to achieve in my life.

And for someone who barely knows me to call me that is hurtful and then to graduate to being “hooker” status all the more distastful in my book.

The words have to power to quench my confidence if I allow them. My life is not lived to suit that person. I have to live to satisfy myself and God.

So, what they think is on them. If their shrouded view of humanity is to debase a person, then they have issues that need addressing.

I have worked hard to heal in my soul to feel the confidence I feel now in my life. From things in my past I have needed healing and deliverance from. I thank God for Pastor Juanita Gibbs who has undertaken the task of holding my hand and being used of God in a mighty way in my life to bring me to where I am now in life.

She has helped me work on my soul and its inner adornment of the word of God in my life and its been needful to bring change. Change isn’t fun or easy. But, when I put my hands to the plow to change I am determined.

My inner adornmemt of the word of God and knowing and filling up on His love I want to shine forth in my life. Its all because God using a surrendered vessel in my pastor to help me to achieve that and so much more in the time ahead for Gods glory!

I have to guard what words I hear from others as to what will have power and what won’t. The job is to up to me to guard my soul and tend to it with care so that weeds don’t grow to stifle my purpose.

~Love Life~Live Life~ 😍

~Cynthia 😉

Author: Cynthia

Greetings Readers! I began blogging in Aug 2017 about my personal experiences, thing I have going on in my life that I am working toward overcoming. I write my blogs to help encourage others that may be going through some of the things like I have dealt with in life to show them there is help and hope no matter what we are going through in life. My writings have helped me to begin to write my very first book and it is coming along greatly and I sure hope to have it published perhaps next year would be great. So, please stay tuned for that! I want my life to help inspire others to keep going and to not quit when life gets hard. We all may face different things but we can learn from each other if we see how we overcome in an area that another may be struggling in. I write to encourage and uplift to bring a glimmer of hope when there isn't much offered out there in the world today. I have been an avid reader for years and this year has been a year of me putting my writing out there for the world to begin to see as I have of others. ~Love Life ~ Live Life~ ;)

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